The way of life!

Why is it that when someone does something rude or uncalled for to you it is all fun and games but the minute that u say or do the same thing back to them it is not ok.....like it is just compleatly rude and it makes you look like the biggest jerk ever!Well if you ask me that is retarted...like seriously if you can deal it out you need to learn how to take it in!Now if you are gonna do something like that and you dont mean to hurt the person then tell them...like seriously in my eyes if someone does something and it makes you mad and you do it back to them and they get all pissy at you and freak out then they r the ones who are making themselves look like total losers! If they didnt mean it and they told you that then they could have avoided making themselves look bad infront of everyone...cause really if you think about it.....the reason they probably did something to you is to make themselves look good or to impress someone or something or they were just trying to flaunt how good they are in your face but either way in the end they r gonna look like the fag in they hole situation!